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Do Women Like Big Penises?

April 26, 2010

On one hand, I’m a medical student. I’ve seen penises in ways they should not ever meant to be seen. I’ve even catheterised. Doctors treat men for micropenis. I should be able to talk about this.

On the one hand, as a woman, I’m inexperienced, conservative and the subject matter makes me blush.

However, I think this is pretty important. I’m asking for some honest opinions from the girls as well. I don’t about your inbox but mine is spammed endlessly with methods to enlarge penises. A lot of insecurity and insults are focused on the subject of member size. Men obsess about this symbol of their manhood.

It all seems rather pointlessly baseless to me.  I like the first page of this article on AskMen about it. One average reported for erect penis length is 5.9 inches (5.5. – 6.3 as average range), with a circumference of 4.9(4.7 – 5.1 as average range). The aforementioned is a study that uses medical professionals to measure rather than self-reporting methods: men overestimate significantly otherwise.

I could tell you more but these articles which’re mostly accurate make my points for me:

Penis Myths Debunked

Men Worry About Penis Size More Than Women

85% women are ‘very satisfied’ with partner’s endowment

Width reported to be better than length

Facts about penis size (guys: pay attention, don’t check out other men’s sizes).

Does penis size really matter to women?

First of all, there’s apparently very little reason physiologically why it should in terms of length: her canal is four inches and has little sensation beyond the first part anyway. There’s a little speculation that there’s more clitoral stimulation if a man’s wide (although male width doesn’t change substantially between men), which could explain their focus on width.  A large penis matters also in terms of that it can apparently hurt or won’t fit if you don’t prepare your partner properly and take it slow. She won’t be able to accommodate you. There’re also technical difficulties in pleasuring a man orally for example, which would explain the women who actually prefer them smaller. For some women, psychologically a huge penis could be stimulating. There’s a theory this is linked with dominance.

For a woman, the first introduction to the erect penis and the scrotal sac can be reported as a rather frightening experience. It looks large, it moves and its veins make it look angry. She wonders how on Earth its meant to fit inside her and doesn’t want it near her. As time goes on, she learns to befriend it, learns its unfamiliar anatomy and then hopefully love it.

So where did the myth of penis size (especially length) significance, originate?

One theory is that it originates from gay culture, which is now closely linked to women. Another theory says its do with controlling black male sexuality using false ideas about their size. I’ve come across references that date to centuries long gone.

What we girls need to remember is that this is a touchy issue for men. Nervous laughter or any such signals can be misinterpreted, to disastrous consequences for you both.

One thing’s for sure is that a woman who denigrates a man’s size is most likely maliciously lying. What a person insults reveals more about their own flaws than others. If  targeting his sensitive sexual self is her primary way of assessing him? Yeah, she’s probably a superficial insensitive ****, who doesn’t have the decency and dignity to keep what’s private private. These girls know it’s an easy target for emasculation and something men are insecure about.

So what type of women are more likely to say they care about penis size, and why?

(Apparently, one such female is Lady Gaga.)

195 Comments leave one →
  1. April 26, 2010 7:40 pm

    Seinfeld seems to be the flavor of night:

    ” Nervous laughter or any such signals can be misinterpreted, to disastrous consequences for you both.”

    Sticks and stones might break my bones but laughter will echo forever.

  2. Carl Sagan permalink
    April 26, 2010 8:39 pm

    I think as a man you should be more concerned about keeping your game air-tight (re: confidence) than the size of your penis.

    Although I am hung like a horse, ladies.

  3. April 26, 2010 8:48 pm

    whoa, seinfeld.

    penis size doesn’t make a huge difference (npi), but i did date a really um, endowed guy, and it really was …kinda hot. i think it enhanced the aesthetic, and even in terms of the quality of sex, it felt improved just ’cause of his girth and uh, length. i dunno, it was hot. but it really was hot with all my other partners, it’s just an extraneous factor. like if a girl has big boobs, or a rounder ass than another one.

  4. April 26, 2010 9:42 pm

    Men obsess about it, in ways that’re unhealthy and downright delusional (some think smaller than they are, or the average) in too many. As well as that, it’s disproportionate in terms of how much it actually matters to women, even though the worries are presented as female-centered. Very much agree with Carl.

    Its like women worrying over small breast sizes, except much much worse.

    Its very much a cause for concern and I don’t know how it can or should be solved.

  5. Tupac Chopra permalink
    April 26, 2010 9:51 pm

    and its veins make it look angry


    Never heard that one before

  6. April 26, 2010 9:57 pm

    So that’s not what “phallic rage” means, Tupac? ;)

  7. April 26, 2010 10:28 pm

    I’m really curious to see what the women have to say about it. Those of you who read my blog know that my girlfriend has told me that I have a huge penis (and that I’m the best in bed she’s ever experienced). Then again if women view the penis as, “It looks large, it moves and its veins make it look angry.” then from a certain POV I guess its true.

    I think as a man you should be more concerned about keeping your game air-tight (re: confidence) than the size of your penis.

    Absolutely. Guys have no need to worry about the size of our penises. We should always think that our penises are the best possible size for our women. That will add to our confidence.

  8. Tupac Chopra permalink
    April 26, 2010 11:18 pm

    So that’s not what “phallic rage” means, Tupac? ;)


    Only it when it spits in your face.

    But you know you love it.

    Or will.

    wOOp wOOp!

  9. Tupac Chopra permalink
    April 26, 2010 11:20 pm

    I think we need a Girl Game discussion on the propriety of facials.


    In my experience, it’s been 50/50

    Would like to hear your thoughts.

  10. April 26, 2010 11:50 pm

    I live by the wisdom of Marlowe – an inch of raw mutton is better than an ell of fried stock.

    That is all.

  11. April 26, 2010 11:51 pm

    EDIT: “stock-fish.” How I fucked up a line from a famous play, I don’t know.

  12. Rebekah permalink
    April 27, 2010 12:49 am

    It looks large, it moves and its veins make it look angry.

    So digusting, really. But I bet Morrissey is made of gold.

    Reading this post I can’t help but ponder your post on ovulation, Bhetti. :)

  13. April 27, 2010 1:46 am

    facials are always appropriate. in fact, i think it’s a nice self-contained pleasure sexuality removed. just ’cause warm cum feels nice. getting your face cummed on is like stepping into a warm bath. same sudden, nice feeling. obviously, with the sex factored in it’s just a territorial claim and it’s nice to be branded as someone’s property like that.

  14. April 27, 2010 9:15 am

    Porn is the answer, folks. From a very young age, guys will be watching that fake stuff and they will always be subjected to unreal sizes which hardly fit in the ‘norm’ of penis size.

    It’s why men obsess over it, there was even a study which found that all men, irrespective of sexuality or otherwise have seen porn in their lives.

    Not me though, obviously. I’m an angel.

    You know what women really like though?

  15. April 27, 2010 9:15 am


    Reading this post I can’t help but ponder your post on ovulation, Bhetti.

    And what doth you ponder? How swords seem at certain phases of the moon?

    Sofia, let me modify what you said:

    facials are always appropriate [for Sofia]

    I feel ill at the idea.

    Ferdinand, hear hear.

    PMAFT/Rebekah: On the other hand, many view it as beautiful after getting over their initial feelings.

  16. Tupac Chopra permalink
    April 27, 2010 11:52 am

    I feel ill at the idea.

    My spidey-sense tells me Doug is crying on the inside.

    But yeah, I’ve found it interesting how women can be so polarized on the issue.

  17. April 27, 2010 1:30 pm

    imho, it really doesn’t matter. You two either have sexual chemistry, or you don’t. (part of sexual chemistry includes ability to communicate, adapt, whatever, at least in my world.) He turns you on, or he doesn’t. (and vice versa.)

    That said, I do think there is a bare minimum, I mean, condoms don’t stay on pencil nubs. But seriously, I mean pencil nubs. Few men will have to worry about that, and if they do, embrace using your other skillz.

    Funny, though, as much as we hear about mens’ “concern” with their own adequate size I think its a twisting of the myth. Every man with whom this conversation has come up near me has always confidentially boast of some skill they bring to the table, such as “pound for pound I
    am well sized” (smaller men) or “it may be only average but I can last forever baby”, etc. I think, rather, that men are just obsessed with their package, but largely pleased with it. (I guess I am assuming men who don’t consider themselves as having a problem, like impotent?)

    As a woman, I think if you’re concerned you can do two things: a. express that you’re nervous/concerned (about you, not his size), and b. don’t be a jerk in bed.

  18. Firepower permalink
    April 27, 2010 2:51 pm

    incredibley passive-agg article bhettikins.
    lilgrl’s just gotta hate that her au revoir was swiftly displaced
    by one on cock size.

    r so
    cruel – srsly

  19. April 27, 2010 5:32 pm

    “facials are always appropriate. in fact, i think it’s a nice self-contained pleasure sexuality removed. just ’cause warm cum feels nice. getting your face cummed on is like stepping into a warm bath. same sudden, nice feeling. obviously, with the sex factored in it’s just a territorial claim and it’s nice to be branded as someone’s property like that.”

    Yes! I completely agree. they are the best (when in a relationship imo.)

    seconded on girlgame needing a post on facials.

  20. Rebekah permalink
    April 27, 2010 6:20 pm


    And what doth you ponder? How swords seem at certain phases of the moon?

    Yes, and how certain phases can prompt a rumination on penises.

    On the other hand, many view it as beautiful after getting over their initial feelings.

    …And some can choose not to look at it directly. There are so many more aesthetically pleasing parts of a man’s body upon which to focus.

    Regarding Atlantis Unleashed, the first thing that came to mind was Nell’s sword in the belly. It makes sense now. Haha.

  21. Doug1 permalink
    April 27, 2010 8:18 pm


    Every man with whom this conversation has come up near me has always confidentially boast of some skill they bring to the table, such as “pound for pound I
    am well sized” (smaller men) or “it may be only average but I can last forever baby”, etc. I think, rather, that men are just obsessed with their package, but largely pleased with it. (I guess I am assuming men who don’t consider themselves as having a problem, like impotent?)

    You’re talking about male ego, in this case re: his package.

    People these days often make fun of male ego, esp. feminists do.

    Male ego is necessary to get hard. Or anyway the deflation of male ego in core sexuality areas will cause most men to not get hard. That doesn’t mean any insult will. Only ones that actually deeply emotionally get to him will. At least if he’s a normal, dominant oriented male.

    So men, particularly more insecure men, do proactively protect their maleness ego.

  22. April 27, 2010 9:26 pm

    facials are always appropriate. in fact, i think it’s a nice self-contained pleasure sexuality removed. just ’cause warm cum feels nice. getting your face cummed on is like stepping into a warm bath. same sudden, nice feeling. obviously, with the sex factored in it’s just a territorial claim and it’s nice to be branded as someone’s property like that.

    This is off topic, but what are some other ways a guy an sexually brand a woman his property?

  23. Doug1 permalink
    April 27, 2010 10:32 pm

    Of course guys want to go way beyond “protecting their male ego”.

    They want to go way confidant, clear stud kind of thing.

    And work to solidify that.

    And so it goes.

  24. April 27, 2010 11:31 pm


    No offense, but she’s probably just lying. Er…stretching the truth.


    it’s just a territorial claim and it’s nice to be branded as someone’s property like that.

    Hell yeah.

  25. April 28, 2010 1:48 am


    Other than cumming inside her (protectionless, obviously)? By impregnating her, I guess. That’s the ultimate claim to a woman.

  26. lovelyshhbeauty permalink
    April 28, 2010 9:37 am

    Never understood why people care so much about men’s size there… A lot of people make a big deal over the Asian guy who appeared naked in “The Hangover,” and how he was so brave or something. I’m like huh…

    I do find it pretty distasteful when women try to insult men by discussing their lack of size or sexual prowess. I have never seen nor can I imagine someone trying to put down a man for something like his size coming across as a justified put-down… It just seems bitter or like one is grasping for a cutting retort. Insulting a man for that is the mark of a crazy and unhinged woman…

  27. lovelyshhbeauty permalink
    April 28, 2010 9:40 am

    Not entirely sure what you guys are talking about with markibg territory (have an idea tho, not that naïve ok!)… That’s interesting to consider as well. Why would someone want to mark the other as theirs after sxytime? Hm… Similar to when a guy does it in a nonsexual context I would guess.

  28. Bhetti permalink*
    April 28, 2010 11:44 am

    You’re probably limited by your creativity, what she’s comfortable with and what we mean by marking.

    I think bruises and bite marks when I think marking.

    Every man with whom this conversation has come up near me has always confidentially

    Researching this and looking at the figures (scattered across the articles linked), there’re too many men out there who think they are too small, when they are far from it. My first thought was wondering about the biases inherent in the sample you’ve had. Even boasting about it shows how there’s this emphasis on size that doesn’t correlate with how women feel about it.

    High five, brah! Of course, porn. Although it’s a little bit chicken and egg, in that what inspired porn to go that way in the first place.

    You know what women really like though?

    There’s far more evidence for this.

  29. Firepower permalink
    April 28, 2010 11:58 am

    Yes, and how certain phases can prompt a rumination on penises.

    of course, you do realize,
    that before ruminating on them with authority,
    you first have to at least seen a penis. – an angry one.

  30. April 28, 2010 12:03 pm


    OHHISIS. I think it’s less of a chicken and egg question and more an issue of practicality. If you look at it from the point of a director, you want to show the act being committed on the film, and therefore the size of penis is, in practical terms, better at providing to the porns’ criteria. Remember, it’s all fakery and acting.

    Whilst a 4 incher would provide to all of a woman’s needs, it would just be a mashing of two bodies on film, hardly ‘hot’.

  31. April 28, 2010 12:05 pm

    Let’s also not forget that the camera adds 20 pounds.

  32. Rebekah permalink
    April 28, 2010 3:24 pm


    Hmm, Bhetti already told us that as a third-year medical student, she has seen a penis. I think that qualifies her to ruminate with moderate authority via this post. But I can’t speak to how angry it was.

  33. April 28, 2010 6:46 pm

    My first thought was wondering about the biases inherent in the sample you’ve had.

    The sample would include: friends, friends of friends, and past loves. Most importantly, I think, is that all of them would be somewhat socially adept; I have no had or overheard conversations involving people who live their lives in isolation in a basement.

    Seriously, though, the only times I’ve heard of this being a concern are:
    – when the man is inexperienced (I’m thinking back to high school here)
    – when a traumatic event has occurred recently (I’m thinking of a friend who recently had a woman, who he had been dating, burst into tears and run from the room about 10 seconds into intercourse. )
    – when the man has an explicit problem he hasn’t decided is normal, such as the first few instances of ‘whiskey dick’ or issues with condoms.

    While I think men are concerned with size, I think far fewer think they are inadequately sized than media, etc., would have us believe. I also wonder how much of the real worry about inadequacy occurs in experienced men.

  34. Bhetti permalink*
    April 28, 2010 7:12 pm

    Exactly what I meant, al. Wondered which came first: the confidence loss or the penis worries?

    Or perhaps they’re inextricably linked. A problem with either one leads to the other.

  35. April 28, 2010 8:48 pm


    No offense, but she’s probably just lying. Er…stretching the truth.

    Really? I never would have guessed.

    I know she’s lying. I’m more concerned with why, and why all my women say those types of things.


    Other than cumming inside her (protectionless, obviously)? By impregnating her, I guess. That’s the ultimate claim to a woman.

    I was hoping for some ideas that didn’t involve me paying a child support check at the end every month for the next 18-22 years. It doesn’t have to be the “ultimate way”.

    I have never cummed inside a woman without protection. I don’t know if I want to go there.


    You’re probably limited by your creativity, what she’s comfortable with and what we mean by marking.

    I think bruises and bite marks when I think marking.

    Bruises and bite marks are not what I had in mind. I was tracking more along the lines of what Sofia was talking about originally.

  36. April 28, 2010 8:49 pm

    The “Really? I never would of guessed” above was supposed to have sarcasm tags around it.

  37. April 28, 2010 9:25 pm

    Bhetti: Confidence loss before penis size!

    There’s a book called “Year of the Cock” about an LA TV producer who leaves his spouse specifically for the purpose of leveraging his relative youth and status into pure sexual debauchery. Because that sounded like a super fun read I began speed reading it at a book store, because if I really apply myself, I don’t have to buy books.

    Only it wasn’t a super fun read at all, it was a dark and disturbing account of what became a pathological obsession with his penis size, spurred by the insecurity of leaving the comfy confines of his marriage for the great unknown.

    Growing up you never really know where you stand. A girl asked me recently if guys do the locker room check, and maybe they do, but that information is misleading because like Rebekah was saying, until you’ve seen them really angry, you don’t have a true measure.

    I heard that girls have a sixth sense about these things, that they can tell where guys stand relative to their behavioral “cockiness” or lack thereof, relative to their looks/status. I think that’s generally true, and I think that it matters, and I think it’s super sweet that girls in the media say it doesn’t. Girls say lots of things just to be nice and I think that’s really pleasant.

  38. LIL permalink*
    April 28, 2010 9:46 pm

    I know she’s lying. I’m more concerned with why, and why all my women say those types of things.

    Um…because they’re not socially inept retards? It’s the same reason a bunch of girls probably laugh at all your jokes (and your non-jokes). Heh.

  39. April 28, 2010 10:12 pm

    Um…because they’re not socially inept retards? It’s the same reason a bunch of girls probably laugh at all your jokes (and your non-jokes). Heh.

    But I don’t ask them questions like, “how do I compare in bed to your previous boyfriends?” or “how does my dick compare to your previous boyfriends?”

    I keep thinking the real reason must be something sinister. I went from getting women was impossible to it being way too easy. I didn’t change so I can’t help but be suspicious about the whole thing.

  40. LIL permalink*
    April 29, 2010 12:22 am

    I keep thinking the real reason must be something sinister.

    Umm, I’m going to go with “male-female sexual dynamics.” Girls and boys lie to each other. A lot. All the time. Hell, people lie to each other a lot. All the time. You know, those little lies that make the world turn. Trying to read too much into it will get you deaded.

  41. April 29, 2010 1:06 am

    Umm, I’m going to go with “male-female sexual dynamics.” Girls and boys lie to each other. A lot. All the time. Hell, people lie to each other a lot. All the time. You know, those little lies that make the world turn. Trying to read too much into it will get you deaded.

    It just seems like these lies are completely over the top and unnecessary. I’m not asking any questions that put her into an impossible situation. Saying the sex was great is sufficient. There is no need to lie and say it was the best she’s ever had. When you tell lies you want them to be believable.

    I have no idea if this means I’m really bad in bed and she doesn’t want to tell me. Of course, if I was so bad, why does she keep coming back for more and more and more? I can think of a few possible reasons and they are sinister. However, if I was that bad she’s willing to really make herself suffer just to keep up the lie. I doubt any woman would be that willing to suffer.

  42. April 29, 2010 8:36 am

    Michael: It’s all about confidence and personality, regardless of size, in many aspects then.

    Another problem with the locker check is the change in visual perspective. Because of your angle, others may look larger relatively.

    PMAFT: Detective work is about piecing together the puzzle to form the whole picture. If you suspect something sinister, there will be other clues available or tests you can perform. I like the one where you pretend into a woman that has whatever quality or behaviour you suspect as well as on board with that agenda. This should prompt a revelation. The disadvantage is that if it’s not true, she may be insecure or even disgusted depending on what it is. You can damage control that easily enough by saying you’ve matured and grown out of that now.

  43. April 29, 2010 10:09 am

    I heard that girls have a sixth sense about these things, that they can tell where guys stand relative to their behavioral “cockiness” or lack thereof, relative to their looks/status.

    I don’t know, I know an awful lot of women who have ‘and I was fooled’ stories, going both ways.

    And PM/AFT: chill. The likelihood that it is something sinister is slim. All you’re doing right now is exposing your own insecurity; she probably just likes you and thinks that it is the type of thing you’d like to hear unsolicited. Sometimes, girls just try to guess what would make their lover happy to hear. Unsolicited.

    I get that you’re a beginner, but it sounds like, right now, you’re doing fine so stop worrying.

  44. April 29, 2010 12:58 pm

    Damn Bhetti, how much time do you spend in locker rooms?

  45. LIL permalink*
    April 29, 2010 5:12 pm

    Of course, if I was so bad, why does she keep coming back for more and more and more? I can think of a few possible reasons and they are sinister.

    Um, are you 85 years old? Are you a rock star? Do you have 10 billion million dollars that you routinely advertise on your person?

    Right, then, I wouldn’t worry. It’s unlikely that the reason she is telling you these things is because she has a “sinister” agenda of some sort–though possible, no doubt. But really, if you spend all your time over-analyzing, you don’t only sound insecure but you will soon start to show it. It is very possible that she just likes you and, as al said:

    thinks that it is the type of thing you’d like to hear unsolicited. Sometimes, girls just try to guess what would make their lover happy to hear. Unsolicited.

    Well, duh. I do hope you don’t read this much into everything girls say, because that’s very unsexy.

  46. April 29, 2010 7:10 pm

    Trust, but verify! ;)

    If it was my own self I had to worry about, I’d risk everything and just have a fun, irresponsible time. But if you have people who love and worry about you, verifying everything should just be part of your normal processing.

    Certainly you shouldn’t act as if you don’t trust people or give them an inkling you think about the possibilities both benign and malicious behind what they do.

  47. April 29, 2010 9:21 pm

    All right. I hear all of you. Let me ask one last question. My women have told me that sex with me is the best they ever had. What if I’m really bad in bed and they’re just trying to spare my feelings? How would I know? How am I supposed to get better at sex?

  48. LIL permalink*
    April 29, 2010 10:53 pm

    What if I’m really bad in bed and they’re just trying to spare my feelings?

    Why does this matter? They’re coming back, right? So who the f* cares.

  49. April 29, 2010 11:02 pm

    Why does this matter? They’re coming back, right? So who the f* cares.

    Good point.

  50. Firepower permalink
    April 30, 2010 9:45 am

    My women have told me that sex with me is the best they ever had. What if I’m really bad in bed and they’re just trying to spare my feelings?

    Give her
    a better tip

  51. Vincent Ignatius permalink
    April 30, 2010 2:17 pm

    In my experience, it has been very important. An inexperienced girl probably won’t know any better, but after a girl has had a few partners, she values a big penis.

  52. May 1, 2010 4:53 am

    I think there are two reasons this Women Like Big Penises thing is so prolific.
    1. It’s a baseless social construct and I agree, an obvious low blow to a man’s ego.
    2. It’s an evolutionary carry-over. The human penis is the largest proportional penis in the primate family. It got this way through evolution because as we began walking upright, the female pelvis shifted and we began having sex face to face. This new position required a certain endowment. Females began selecting to mate with the biggest/longest males to ensure fertilization occurred. I’m not one to underestimate sub-conscious primal instincts. We are animals.

    PMAFT: In my opinion, the girls you are sleeping with are probably satisfied with your skills in bed. Although they are exaggerating, they are probably trying to pump up your ego. When a man believes he is a sex god, he usually performs well. It also means they want to have sex with you again and they’re letting you know in a not so subtle way.

  53. Bhetti permalink*
    May 1, 2010 8:25 am

    greeneyedfolly: I like that theory, but in this case females don’t actually have to select (since by default fertilisation wouldn’t occur) unless they developed an exclusive pair bond with the male in question. Since generally women who don’t have experience and like to stick with one guy don’t seem to generally care, I’m not so sure the preference plays an instinctive part.

    As well as this, can find no evidence about androgens(e.g. testosterone) effecting size. However, there is evidence that anti-androgens (e.g. phthalates used in plastic products) prenatally decrease it.

  54. bob permalink
    May 3, 2010 1:14 pm

    Penis size?

    after inserting component P into component V

    you werent satisfied? really? that sucks because you really fooled me

  55. J_D permalink
    May 7, 2010 3:59 am

    It’s pretty clear she’s bullshitting you but we’ll need to know a hell of a lot more to know why. My knee jerk reaction is gold digger.

  56. J_D permalink
    May 7, 2010 4:00 am

    God, I really should finish writing my posts. that comment was directed at Pro-Male/Anti-Feminist Tech.

  57. May 8, 2010 5:31 pm

    I think it comes down to a male desire to quantify everything. They are analytical. They want a logical reason. Something they can do something about. It’s something can perform. It something that they must make happen. It must have a number on it. They exercise thinking more women will like them, but really they aren’t very likable.

    Oh yes, and maybe it does have something to do with the widespread availability of porn at levels it was not previously available.

    Some women make it about penis size, but they don’t realize that they themselves have equipment that they can learn how to use, too.

    The trend will most likely change. Hairy used to be sexy. Then it was hairless. Clean shaven, vs. mustache. Women go through trends too. We started talking about penis size because all of a sudden society started preaching to the least common denominator.

  58. May 10, 2010 4:39 pm

    Size is a factor, but a more memorable metric is how often a man responds over a time interval (night or weekend). Her residual soreness will be a reminder of her time with him. His recovery and responsiveness is correlated with his youth.

  59. Major Scarlet permalink
    May 11, 2010 9:11 pm

    lets reverse it, do men like a large, bagged out vag? do men like to feel like they are throwing a hot dog down a hallway or fucking a bucket of water? some might be happy to be invited to the party and to get release.. but afterwards it is unsettling to consider how she got that way. also, there is nothing worse than that stare a big vag women gives a man “omg, does he think my vag is big?”

  60. Major Scarlet permalink
    May 13, 2010 7:24 am

    also, lets dispel the myth that men get self conscious of penis size by watching porn. this is an attempt for women to externalize the issue away from their contribution of our mental anguish. how many guys here have had a male best friend that was very well endowed while you aren’t? ever notice how his phone was ringing off the hook after 11 pm (booty calls), or he could walk in to a club and very quickly walk out with a girl, go to his car and shag her in the car? men can see with their eyes that girls treat well hung men differently. now, any guys here ever have a girlfriend that talked about “how big her ex boyfriend was”? if you are dating one of these, sex is probably uncomfortable because her vag is loose. let’s say your current girlfriend isn’t as rude as this girl and doesn’t say anything about ex’s but the first time you have sex it isn’t a comfortable situation because her vag is loose from wear and tear. in this case, the vag does the talking. ladies, even average hung guys have had tight pussy before so they know what it is like. maybe it was their first virgin girlfriend or it was one of the rare girls that is naturally small down there.

    see, “watching porn” isn’t the only reason men get nervous if they measure up.

  61. May 18, 2010 5:45 pm

    I have a 3.5 inch (9 cm) dick when its hard. I know it is small and I DO have to worry. This sux, really…

  62. alexamenos permalink
    June 13, 2010 2:24 pm

    I don’t about your inbox but mine is spammed endlessly with methods to enlarge penises.


    For some reason I found this quote about your inbox being constantly spammed with enlarged penises to be rather dirty.

  63. Truth Dealer permalink
    August 10, 2010 7:49 pm

    Bhetti made a HUGE mistake in her post. Though women can’t feel as much past 4 inches in her vagina, she CAN FEEL PRESSURE. The newer sexology studies confirm this, so update your sources and not rely on very old information from 1960s and 1970s. There has been many updates in the study of women.

    A long penis can touch a woman’s cervix and vaginal fornix. There are MANY women that have cervix/fornix orgasms and like deep penetration. It depends on the woman and if her man or she has dated men that were long enough to reach.

    So there is an obvious difference between short and long penises and their ability to reach and touch the cervix/fornix.

    All women are DIFFERENT. So women have different preferences for penis size. You can’t say that women all prefer a certain size penis, it’s ridiculous. It is like a man saying that all men prefer the exact size breasts on women. Some women like long/big, while other women are fine with short/average. It depends on the woman, her experience, and comfort levels.

    Some other things:

    1. Many women don’t know how to use their vaginal muscles. Their problems with vaginal orgasms has a lot to do with their lack of muscle control and being comfortable with sex and sexuality. There are simple exercise, called kegel exercises, that women can do. There are many videos on the Internet, so google search their videos.

    2. Many women and their male partner don’t know where her G-spot is. Many women can orgasm from 2 finger stimulation of the G-spot, and experienced men know how to angle their penis or position her so that they can touch while penetrating with the penis during sex, but a lot of men and women don’t have a clue. There are also many videos showing men and women where and how to stimulate the G-spot, so google video search (for some you will have to turn off safe search).

  64. August 13, 2010 6:28 pm

    I’m with Sofia, the big ones look hot. Course after you see it, it’s what you do with it that counts. That said I think too many men obsess over size. Which reading this comment back may look hypocritical….ya. Ooops.

  65. September 3, 2010 6:53 pm

    Truth Dealer, I’d be happy for you to point out any online sources for me that show the new research.

    That said I think too many men obsess over size.

    That was the main thrust of the post: the worry over it is disproportionate to how much women actually care.

  66. the truth permalink
    March 22, 2011 9:21 pm

    For the women who have berated their guy’s sizes i seriously wonder If
    said woman/girl required any dental work or cosmetic surgery following their sexual degradation of his manhood.BTW,im totally against violence toward women BUT right when you play this card any idea of you being a woman is thrown out the door.At that point said guy sees you as an evil devil completely void of any class or heart.Its the truth…go ahead and run off about his size and see what happens go for it!

  67. Mel permalink
    April 17, 2011 12:38 pm

    lol, a guy who gives you a facial thinks you’re a ho that deserves one…

    girls are so dumb…

  68. Anonymous permalink
    September 18, 2011 9:30 am

    I can probably weigh in on this….I was kinda small and my wife made a casual concerned comment about 3 yrs ago so I got serious about natural enlargement. It has changed me a lot! Because my testosterone is elevated from the daily routines (with no release) my energy is much higher and my physical performance, i.e., running, cycling, skiing have gone to a new level. On the personnal side of things, my wife has achieved amazing orgasims were she is literally squirming uncontrollably for when she climaxes and goes for 3-4 minutes after with deep low moaning with the most content look on her face. It has made me the person I want to be.

  69. September 21, 2011 9:05 am

    I have a rather large penis, so why do women make a big deal out of it? why do they seek me after we have broken up just for sex, stating size as the reason? WHY? this has been ongoing my entire life. Also one of my exes, a MD said that any woman who has had this will always come back to it….. I think women who say size does not matter are the same ones who complain that their men don’t care about their orgasms…

  70. October 27, 2011 11:27 am

    Women do care about size indeed, but not so much as us guys tend to believe. As I male stripper I have first hand experience about how much women care about size. Without trying to brag but just being honest, I’ve got a length of 8,5 inches, and about 6 inches circumference, which is bigger than the average and the median for men in my country. I’ve had the occasional “big guy” comments during the shows where I’ve been posing with an erection, but that’s pretty much all. Yes, they like to see penises, they may scream about it, but it hasn’t so much to do with size as you’d think.

    But one thing they do care about seems to be appearance. After I was circumcised and got into the routine of being completely shaven (or waxed) I got more compliments.

  71. azza987 permalink
    November 2, 2011 2:37 am

    Well, I’d say that the saying “its what you do with it that counts” is true. Ok, a huge penis is obviously going to get women exited. Laughing and joking at a hen party say. But in the bedroom its different. I Cant stereotype but I’m guessing that for a lot of men, the idea of giving a woman good sex is to pound away as hard and as fast as you can. Me myself i feel different, I’m 27 and have had 5 sexual partners, each have said I’m the best they’ve ever had. Yet my penis is just over 6 inches. Pretty average Joe, but what i do in bed makes my girl go crazy. We spend hours on foreplay, then when it comes to it, its slow and intense, changing positions every 10 minutes, touching aswel is a big turn on. As i make love I’ll stroke her neck, arms and back with the tips of my fingers. This makes her hair stand on end and she trembles. Women love a generous man. Not one who lies there and asks for oral, then says bend over and Thats it. Ok i suppose it depends on the woman. But basically what I’m trying to say is, its what you do with it! I’ve gone into detail a bit with my sex life, Thats for you guys who wanna impress, make her feel special in bed. Never ask for anything. Bend over backwards to make her climax. Once i was in so much pain twisting my body fingering her i nearly passed out. But carried on as she was enjoying it so much. Ok look at it this way. How many famous statues have you seen the naked ones? All the men have 1 to 2 inch flaccid penis’s meaning 5 or 6 is average. There’s your proof! Your all Normal sizes so dont worry!! And girls go easy on the men yea, we’re all humans with feelings :-)

  72. azza987 permalink
    November 2, 2011 2:41 am

    Learn to be happy with what you got..

  73. Carlos Silva permalink
    November 6, 2011 8:47 pm

    Despite having what I am told to be a large penis (8.5 inches long and just over 6 inches thick) I am concerned that girls have been with bigger guys and are not satisfied with me Mean girls use this against men like we can never measure up to that guy she was with before me.
    As a flip side, “nice” girls talk to all of their friends about how big I was and how their panties have blood in them for a few days after we have sex. It’s like a milestone when they no longer bleed and they report it to me like we can now have sex without blood. In the world of big dicks, this means they are trained. It’s mixed messages. Once they have been trained they take it like there is no tomorrow.
    I am obsessed with big dicks and feel like a loser in that department.
    Anyone see Clint Eastwood’s The Unforegiven? Central to it was girls laughing at someone’s cock.
    There are so many mixed messages on this topic. It can deflate any guy.

  74. November 10, 2011 10:50 pm

    I certainly wouldn’t take a woman’s word on this one, especially not in public. I understand that Bhetti is more trustworthy than most, but she’s also sexually inexperienced. Men’s so-called “obsession” with penis size seems odd to women, but I think that is partly because their own sexuality is often a mystery to them. Women’s sexual fantasies do not usually include a large penis, but sometimes do. If you read what horny women write on adultfriendfinder, it seems to matter for sure.

    Bhetti’s right that it does seem illogical since women’s vaginal canals are not that deep anyway, but that is part of the point. Like many things in sexuality, this is about dominance. A man who fills her up beyond all reason is even more dominant. That is what turns men on about women have sex with large men, and since heterosexual women are almost always sexual submissives, this can also turn them on (at times).

    Definitely, I was told constantly that women do not care, and I believed it. My actual experience tells me otherwise. And yeah, like Sofia said, it’s also aesthetic. But women’s sexuality is very flexible and inconstant, so nothing is going to be true in all cases.

  75. November 23, 2011 8:00 am

    I dedicated a website to this issue. It is called the does size matter project (tdsmproject) and it is available at
    Basically i found
    1.there is nothing like a too big penis
    2. Number of women’ sex partners are over estimated
    3. There is a lot of space in any vagina
    4. There is no proof of vagina difference
    5. When people say the vagina entrance is the only place where there is nerve endings, it is totally wrong.
    6. Women who has less than 10 sex partners should not give their opinion about penis size.

    In conclusion, the question is totally open.

  76. Ryan permalink
    November 27, 2011 4:30 am

    PS makes some great points and pretty much breaks it down perfectly. I think one reason why many guys are concerned about their size is because a woman’s physical traits are very important to guys in attraction and sexual arousal. Guys then assume that women must get aroused in the same way and feel that there looks, physique, and especially their penis are very important to women. But from what I’ve experienced and read is that it’s actually quite a different experience for a woman. Not to say that women don’t like good looking guys or maybe even big penises but a woman’s attraction to a man and her sexual arousal have alot more to do with emotion and situations. It is a fairly complex collection of things that make a woman attracted to or turned on by a guy, and many times, like PS said, a woman’s attraction to a man is even a mystery to her.

    I do think that the main culprit for guys feeling insecure about their penis size is definitely porn. They cast guys that have huge penises and have the girls act like it’s the greatest thing in the world. It’s acting most of the time I think :) I’ve even heard that it’s part of the marketing for porn. To make guys feel that if they don’t have a dick like the guy in the film that no woman is going to want him and that he should just spend his money on more porn instead of going out and meeting women.

    I think there are very few women out there that actually demand a large penis. I think the vast majority of women fall into two categories for the most part. The “I don’t give a shit category” or the category of women whose ideal size is exactly what most guys have, 5-7″.

    This is my personal perspective. I’m interested in what any women might think about what I’ve said. If you care to respond I’d love to hear your feedback.

  77. Jcdew permalink
    December 5, 2011 5:53 am

    Do you put down people with Handicaps?
    Do you make fun of people with a missing arm,leg,etc.?
    Do you make fun of people because of the color of their skin?

    A man can’t help what size his Penis is,to make fun of a man or crack a joke relating to his Penis size is just as bad as making fun of a person for the reasons I listed in the beginning of my post.

  78. Carlos Silva permalink
    December 5, 2011 7:18 am

    This is the fairest most level-headed treatment of this subject Jcdew. This issue is sensitive and complex. One of the points I take from this forum is that penis size is in no way a handicap. To suggest so is to take away from those with a true handicap. Chill mate. It can do anyone’s head in, but at least we are able bodied.

  79. Jcdew permalink
    December 5, 2011 9:05 am

    It makes me sad that so many women judge a man by something he has no control over,something no matter what he does he can’t change.

    What is a Handicap?
    1. to be a hindrance or disadvantage to
    2. something that hampers or hinders

    Society makes a man feel subpar if he has smaller than a average penis(and even some that do)
    Even some of the previous posters have helped support what I have said.

    True Handicap? Sounds like it to me.

    For the women that want a big Penis,remember YOU CAN learn to tighten your Vagina muscles.

    The problem isn’t a small Penis,it is you are too big and need to learn to use your muscles,if you don’t have something truly stopping you from doing this then you are just being lazy.

    BTW,most men will say you are great in bed even if you aren’t,a lot of men will orgasm whether it was you or anyone else they just say you are the best to keep you happy.

    Guys also commonly talk about women being “loose” and this was among guys that were at average or above.I used to play Football and we always talked about this after a game in the Locker room or showers.

  80. January 7, 2012 11:04 pm

    I’d like to leave my remarks here about facials/bukkakes/etc…

    Like the penis size taboo, i feel like that is also turning into another wrongly interpreted matter.

    Speaking as a man, when a woman asks or shows the ejaculation flowing on her face or down her body (for either the excitement of the physical warmth or the psychological aspect) is to me another passionate sign of sexual desire, of wanting her/his partner, to enjoy herself and/or him without holding back, taking the active role often. Same goes for swallowing the partner(s) ejaculation, and i’d bet all men and woman love that, straight or gay.

    None of that humiliation/whore/property nonsense.

  81. January 14, 2012 11:45 pm

    I think erection strength and sexual stamina are more important than size alone, but if you have a big penis, then you would girls more pleasure during penetration.

  82. torpedojoe permalink
    January 18, 2012 12:16 am

    I hope this doesn’t sound gross, but even though I have found out that my erect penis is average size, I think a little more than six inches–when I am in a public restroom like at a truck stop where another guy whips his out at the urninal next to you, there have been a number of times that I have seen penises that appeared abnormally long for someone not having an erection. Mine was nowhere near as long.

    So I wonder if the old saw that the average length of a man’s erect penis is six inches is an inch or two short of reality. Everyone have a good day, and if you get a laugh out of this, that is okay too.

  83. January 22, 2012 5:39 am

    i think i had a large penis any girl want it around 6 inch

  84. Sheila. permalink
    January 23, 2012 12:10 pm

    What a load bollocks. Us whores can’t handle big cocks as they hurt specially taking 10 day every day you get throat ache and red as @”&£&@”

  85. Nick permalink
    January 23, 2012 12:16 pm

    massive cocks like my 9 inches and also being large in circumstance do make big diff in sex, yes women sensitive clit at top on entry but they relish being fucked standing up with thick and long cock keeping them off floor with no hands maximise orgasam when they riding no hands and you let go of there ass go hands free she drops fully on it

  86. gilgamesh permalink
    January 24, 2012 11:23 pm

    lol as if theres such a large convo about dick

  87. February 6, 2012 8:41 am

    All men care aobut it but regarding my experience doesnt matter because I can make a girl orgasm with my dick so …

  88. Anonymous permalink
    February 11, 2012 6:21 pm

    Don’t hate the playa — hate the game.

  89. February 25, 2012 11:17 pm

    To all the guys responding…

    You guys are idiots. (no need to respond… u guys are idiots, a clever response changes nothing in my mind)
    and to the ones who say they have huge dicks…idiots it shouldnt matter, i am almost certain u dont know how to use it

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  91. bill permalink
    March 6, 2012 11:22 am

    I came across this page and decided to leave a comment. I am so huge that it is embarrassing. Not sexually but in public. I know what it is like for a woman to have large boobs because men look at women with large boobs.

    Weel women look at my crotch all the time. I am so large that I cannot hide it while walking down the street or at work or even at church. When relly necessary I have to wear a jock strap most of the time and then even that doesn’t hide me enough.

    I can never wear boxer shorts or go without any underwear at all. Like a large chested woman always has to wear an undwerwire bra I have to wear large briefs and jock straps to hold in close.

    From Junior High when we first started to change in the locker room for gym guys noticed and told people I felt like a freak. I’ve been turned down by many woman of even having a relationshipship because a lot of women don’t want to be known as the girlfriend of my large endowment. It isn’t all its cracked up to be….. Just thought I’d share….

  92. March 25, 2012 1:26 pm

    Cool story!!

  93. Matthew Horn permalink
    April 15, 2012 6:48 am

    Hi, i was wondering if any lady could tell me the absolute truth about the size of my penis. Im circumcised and my penis is 10-11 inches… My previous girlfriend dumped me cause my over larged penis was too painful.. Please tell me how i can fix it for future girlfriends???

  94. April 15, 2012 6:59 am

    @Matthew Horn

    You can find black girl , they genetically have capacious genitalia. I have little one but it works like charm, I can easily make women ejaculate it’s enough for me….

  95. precious permalink
    April 16, 2012 9:23 am

    I seriously like men with wide and big pennis.. of course i only have one boyfriend and i do love him.. his pennis is like the size of my lower arm and around 8 to 9 inches.. it was like huge for me, it is really painful at first and I felt being lacerated down there! Hehe but I did alot to manage it well ( proper positioning ). I always have to use personal lubricant so it won’t hurt me as without it, I could feel like virgin over and over again. Without it, it is difficult for him to enter.. yeah! I am certainly maniac to my boyfriend but I am really turn on to his pennis.. he is so hygeinec and that makes it a 5 stars to like it even more.. wow! I talked alot.. hehhe

  96. April 20, 2012 8:49 pm

    big breasted like big penis either lustfully or loving but money talks

  97. April 20, 2012 8:53 pm

    i have had the experiece of size and no wonder men or women screw around ,size and addicted to lust causes jealously this big titted women is flirting with my not so big man butr he is man to me i and 38dd,seeing his lust turns me on big time

  98. April 20, 2012 9:03 pm

    these bar sluts are flirting with my man resentment start but i want to get mad or tell them to back off so i broke the new to him, they are flirting but dont know your size and think it is good yet it is not that big but it turns me on since i have been with him 3 years yet have not had sex but did when we first met , cut the chase and get to the desert oral . it worked well i am dripping wet now thinking of it so i know , i am horny in middle of nite every nite cumming all over down my leg, he is not long and thick just fits right,open wide blu

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  100. durga chetry permalink
    May 2, 2012 2:03 pm

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  101. Praniit permalink
    May 5, 2012 5:23 am

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  102. Praniit permalink
    May 5, 2012 5:34 am

    For me its vry hard to say wether women wants a bigcock or smal1.but what i tink is big p3nis rocks wen we do sex wid gals.

  103. blanco diablo permalink
    May 10, 2012 2:19 pm

    These comments were really eye-opening! I’m a shy, but moderate-to-very “hung” guy and all this talk makes me realize how much I really miss my ex-gf. She was an absolute unrepentent size queen, very vocal, (for such a quiet gal) and she really changed my outlook on sex & gave me incredible confidence in bed. Still, I’m only now realizing how much women in general are truly CRAVING size. Jeez. And reading [removed]‘s story (above) – WHOA! Its intoxicating to contemplate acting on some of the more blatant come-on’s I’ve gotten from some younger, (but attached)! women of late. In fact maybe it was more wrong NOT to at least accept a BJ from my buddy’s cute, drunk, flirty gf after both she and HIM suggested I drive her home while he stayed at the bar. Next time, I’ll drive her home, alright.

  104. Daniel permalink
    May 11, 2012 7:10 am

    I like to know more on big penis my wife is angry with my small penis What do I do?

  105. Carlos Silva permalink
    May 11, 2012 12:19 pm

    That is a dangerous way to think. Did she actually say that? Or are you just thinking that? This is a very important distinction. I think this forum is here to help discuss these things in a sensible fashion.
    There are some women who have said they like big cocks on this forum, but there are also a lot who have said it is not important, or even that they are not into them.
    You are obviously not a native English speaker so can we assume your wife is not either? Watching to much Western or black on Western porn I think.
    My wife hates my dick. Says it’s too big, and I think she means it because she won’t let me me put it all the way in her. It has ruined our sexual life completely.
    If she says she is angry at you for having an inadequate dick for her, I recommend having condomless affairs and letting her know she needs to exercise her cunt.

  106. Amina permalink
    May 23, 2012 3:53 pm

    Seriously, I had to finish with a guy who was literally too big for me. I liked looking at his cock but to take it all…… ouch. Too big, much too big.

    Plus the fact one of his two topics of conversation were about his big penis. Boring too.

  107. Mariko permalink
    May 27, 2012 6:11 pm

    Why do men worry about it ?

    Google penis enlargement and find an whole industry keeping this myth alive.
    It’s big money that keeps these guys wonder about their penis size.

    But actually the size of the penis only matters in width not in length.
    Why ? The female clitoris is not just the outside part, but warps inside her body around the vagina. It is now believed that the outward pressure of the corona is stimulating the inside part of the clitoris of a woman. So one could say, the longer the penis, the more time it takes for the corona to stimulate the clitoris.
    Well at least that is what some scientists now claim.

    Another reason was suggested that it had to do with delivering sperm deep into the vagina. However human reproduction has a nice trick that increase the change of fertilization of the female egg a lot. The reason why man in general have an orgasm before a woman does is because of the biological function of the female orgasm. Muscle contractions in the vagina during a female orgasm, create an upward suction that transports the sperm to the ovary. But that is not all, studies have shown that the sperm will be transported to the fallopian tube that contains the egg, not the other side ! If there is no egg at the time, it transport the sperm to the fallopian tube that will receive the next egg.

    Sex is about reproduction and that is why some things happen in a curtain way.
    To you guys, just stop worrying about your penis size. Or that your orgasm comes first, it is meant to happen this way. My husband’s isn’t that big, but it’s more than enough for me.

    Enjoy sex. :D

  108. Mariko permalink
    May 27, 2012 6:49 pm

    Here is the full program containing the the clip from my last post.

    Enjoy learning about sex. :D

  109. Mariko permalink
    May 27, 2012 7:39 pm

    Here is my last post for now. :D

    Penis size: What’s normal, what’s not ?

    The fear that your penis looks too small or is too small to satisfy your partner during sex is a common fear. But a number of studies have shown that most men who think their penises are too small actually have normal-sized penises. Similarly, studies suggest than many men have an exaggerated idea of what constitutes “normal” penis size. Consider that:
    The average penis measures somewhere between 3 and 5 inches (or about 8 to 13 centimeters) when not erect, and between 5 and 7 inches (13 to 18 centimeters) when erect.
    A penis is considered abnormally small only if it measures less than 3 inches (or about 7 centimeters) when erect, a condition called micropenis.

    How partners view penis size.

    The popular media and advertisers would have you believe that your partner cares deeply about penis size. The issue of attraction is complex, but numerous studies suggest that penis size is much lower on the list of priorities for women than such issues as a man’s personality. Unfortunately, there’s little research about gay men’s perceptions about their partners’ penis size. But keep in mind that understanding your partner’s needs and desires is more likely to improve your sexual relationship than trying to change the size of your penis.

  110. Anonymous permalink
    June 10, 2012 4:42 pm

    trying to tell a women to take a hot load to the face never works out in my experiences in the bed room!

  111. Jon permalink
    June 21, 2012 1:04 am

    I’m well endowed, and fall in the 95th percentile of penis length and girth. It’s nice to see a woman’s look of surprise when she first sees my penis; however I’ve found women who have stayed fixated on my size to be usually intellectually wanting, for lack of a better word. I also don’t like women with big breasts or a big butt, for those who like to compare endowment in men and women, lol. I have always found thin athletic women to be hot.

  112. July 10, 2012 8:06 pm

    I think it’s more psychological than physical, BUT a man with a long penis will have a longer stroke during intercourse causing the sensation to last longer (as long as the stroke) without a break whereas an average to small penis will have to move more like a jack rabbit but still has that stop and go feeling.. No science here just a thought.. BTW, I’m an average sized dude and have had more frequent fliers than one night stands so I must be doing something right… lol

  113. salah permalink
    July 12, 2012 5:55 pm

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  114. Anna permalink
    July 13, 2012 5:24 pm

    I adore a handsome man with a large penis, both girth and length. I am simply attracted to a well- endowed man. That said, he still needs to be a great lover and not base it on his size alone.
    I might be a bit neanderthal:) but to have sex with a large man is such a turn-on, I would not have it any other way!.

  115. Jada permalink
    July 19, 2012 12:37 pm

    I have to agree about a bigger penis size having a meaning of dominance. I have slept with 6 white men being of an average size 6-7 inches and more recently I have slept with a black man who was considerably bigger width and length. Behind the big package is a 6 foot 4 16 stone man with a perfect muscular body. Being only 5 foot 2, weighing little over 8 stone I find this quite a huge turn on to know that my partner is that much bigger then me. So I do believe it is a dominance thing. However I agree that when it comes to sex it is painful to begin with and although he is a hell of a lot bigger it’s not also more enjoyable. For me its about the feelings behind it. That is why the comment in your statement about size issues erged me to reply because I have to agree that size does mean dominance. If you go back to our basic instincts stripping back all stereotypes, material things so on so on it truly comes down to the female seeking a protector. The strongest man generally got the women. Even if you go into the animal world and look at there mating situes you will see that a pack of males will fight or stage there dominancey to be the ultimate male so in my mind size does matter not nessicarliy for the sexual pleasure but for what comes attached to that huge penis lol. Your rarely going to see a 9 inch penis attached to a 5 foot skinny man lol. Women loom for there protector, someone who can look after them and make them feel safe. But as I said in my previous comments size doesn’t make the sexual pleasure all that much better but at the time it’s not pleasurable to have sex with a man with tiny girth and tiny length. I love nothing better then to be cuddling up to my MAN in bed have our feet touching but yet my head only reaches above his waiste just by the ribs so that way I’m not by his his feet to be walked on, I’m not by his head to be more suppieor, I’m inbetween, equal, I’m under his arm to be protected and right next to his heart to be loved. Perfect Xxx

  116. justice permalink
    July 26, 2012 2:00 am


  117. Bruce permalink
    July 27, 2012 6:09 pm

    I am lucky enough to be a bit bigger than average. 7.5 x 5.7…6 circumference at the base…and a big head.

    I LOVE the comments I get from girls. I would make my dick freakishly huge if I could. Then I could fuck size queens who are fantastically whoreish in bed. Unfortunately, I’m too small for a size queen. But I’m considering buying a penis pump….if i could only do it anonymously.

    Girls, btw, are JUST as worried about the size of their vaginas as we are about our penises. Younger girls are completely unaware about vaginal difference. Yes, of course, they’re all different. Is there a body part in existence that isn’t different? We’re all different….everywhere. Girls’ vaginas are no exception.

    So you can very easily get into a girl’s head, if you wanted…if she undercutted you about your penis size. I once had a girlfriend make me VERY insecure about my penis size. She said she wished it was thicker. So I spun it back on her with the conversation about vagina size weeks later. I cleverly made her feel that she had a loose, not-so-satisfying pussy. She cried and was depressed for months…probably longer unbeknowst to me. I regret doing it. But she started the fight, so fuck her. Anyway, let that be an available weapon for any man that is attacked by a woman. They are just as sensitive as we are. We all want to be the best…(whatever that means.)

    The best sex I ever had, though, was with a girl that was inordinately impressed with my cock. This WAS the primary reason that the sex was so good. She thought it was huge and couldn’t stop touching it and talking about it. And when we fucked, she would scream and orgasm like crazy. She would text me BEGGING me to fuck her. She told all her friends too. Thank You!! She told me my cock took her to another world that no man’s cock ever did. I’ve never seen a girl shake like that…..the AUTHENTICITY of her reactions…you can’t fake that! I felt like GOD! I would pay money to fuck that girl again. And it was directly because of how she made me feel psychologically. She was a 4 in the face….possibly, the ugliest girl I’ve ever fucked…(of course the best tits I’ve EVER seen…and the ass was pretty good too.) But I don’t care. I never had a girl react so authentically amazed by my dick. And I’m not even that big! She said she had seen bigger, but he kept blowing his load right away and he was ugly. I can last forever…and I’m tall and in shape…..and handsome as fuck.

    Girls want to fuck me for a variety of reasons. But the reason I like most, is when it’s for my cock itself. Somehow, girls wanting to use me just for my cock, is a giant fantasy. But mostly, it’s because i’m funny and tall.

    Anyway, so I do have to say that having a bigger cock leads to more reactions. We humans want to cause A REACTION. …and it has to be authentic. We know when you’re faking it and causes the reverse. I resent you and never want to see you again….ever.

    I will say that it always follows that girls that are more concerned with finding guys with big dicks always turn out to have a huge vaginas, in my experience.

    But Isn’t that logical? The girl may think she just has some special craving for big dick…but it’s not accidental. She has a looser pussy, so a bigger dick gives her more pleasure.

    Other girls don’t like big dicks because they have tighter pussies and big dicks HURT.

    So just shop around and find a pussy that fits you right.

    Although, look online for excercises to make your dick bigger….like jelqing and clamping… or buy a penis pump.

    I thinking using a penis pump (which I haven’t but I want to) is the perfect way to experiment with this ‘big dick’ thing.

    You only temporarily make it bigger…so you can compare with yourself how different the sex will be.

    And trust me…a bigger dick causes more reactions: in her psyche, in your psyche…

    …and when you can cause a girl to go crazy because of your dick…it’s the best feeling in the world.

    ..which is why I think pedaphiles must all have micropenises.

  118. Harjit permalink
    August 2, 2012 8:01 am

    We men start ribbing each other from a young age using the “pencil-dick” as the main insult.

    Then we watch freaks of nature in porn videos which makes us feel more inadequate (the freaks are over 10 inches and 2 inches in girth)

    Why do men desire big dicks? Why do women desire big tits? Same shit different pile.

  119. David permalink
    August 6, 2012 9:57 pm

    saw this thread and thought I must be getting old. First off – I am avaerage size. Second, I can give any women an orgasm (I am over 50 and have skills).
    We are given what our genes give us and we have to make with what we have. There are pills and exersizes that may give you an extra 10%, but does that really matter???? Know what you can do and learn the rest, you will be happy and so will your partner.

  120. jay permalink
    August 16, 2012 2:40 pm

    i have 5 inch penis but my girlfriend gets 2-3 times orgasm everytime)

  121. SigillumDiaboli permalink
    August 17, 2012 9:47 am

    Confidence is key, a girl wants a guy that can pin her up against the wall and take control. Not some nervous twerp. All in all the right woman will make you a better man in the long run. However, if you are really small then buy toys and work on your oral skills. I have an average penis and it’s slightly skinnier but that doesn’t matter if you know what your lady likes. Every woman is different in their sexuality so you have to pay attention to their body language and communicate verbally, ask her if this or that feels good. Sex is a dance, and it takes two to tango. (Corny but true)

    The way I got over my size was by making fun of it myself. By owning it, rather it owning me, I gained the confidence and became a great lover.

  122. 5ft4chic permalink
    August 22, 2012 11:12 am

    I’m sorry, but size is a big issue for me. (I guess it’s kind of like guys and women with big breasts. Even if they can’t fit it all in one hand, or their mouth they love them.) I’ve been with guys that were small and guys who were unbelievably large. The smaller guys provided no pleasure at all, and I had to fake so that I didn’t hurt their feelings. Needless to say, the relationships didn’t last long. I much prefer 9″ or better. But 8″ will work too.

  123. August 22, 2012 3:12 pm

    I find your desire intriguing. 5ft4chic, by chance do you like it a little rough? I am just wondering because my junk is only 6″ and I haven’t NOT satisfied a woman yet.. But I didn’t only use my penis.. Massaging, caressing, oral, kissing… etc. The biggest sex organ on the human body is the skin, then the mind. I am not trying to make up for my size as I am still self conscious about it because of the glorifying of large penises, but, when we are with other couples (we are swingers), I am confident in who I am and what I have and have been asked back again and again by other wives, so I guess I’m not doing too bad.. lol. Also, I’m not trying to make this an argument either, I am just curious about what makes some women feel good. I’m all for focusing on the woman and making her feel good and quiver in ecstasy, that in itself turns me on.

  124. polsh permalink
    August 22, 2012 8:47 pm

    If all those men with average penises really worry about being too small or less manly, then they should think about those small breasts and shallow vaginas too! It’s all about performance! Guys, make your tool rock hard and boom with 4500 rounds per minute! Your partner will say, wow, that was owesome! After all, when you have sex, make sure you embrace the girl wholeheartedly, say you luv every bit of it, that makes female partner to be comfortable and thinks whatever she posses is really good for a guy!! And ladies, guys hardly care about the size your breasts!!! I certainly don’t bother, after all I like smaller breasts!! Get going!!

  125. polsh permalink
    August 22, 2012 8:55 pm

    Well, if you really like big penises to satisfy yourself, think about the average guy who have sex with you with no pleasure. For him it would be like pushing into a 8″ wide hole! May be over time, the hole must have eroded beyond use and needs horse size penises to feel something is really inside!

  126. tom permalink
    August 26, 2012 3:18 am

    Yeah its easy to say men obsess about their penis size needlessly and that they are unhealthy but try being a man and being surrounded about penis jokes everywhere on all forms of media, in books, by peers, pornography especially. its not easy feeling good about yourself with all that talk.

    And ladies, its not a fair comparison to say Its like men preferring big breasts. No, it would be fair if the roles were reversed and the dissussion was about whether a long vagina is not acceptable and won’t ever satisfy a man. or if your clitoris is too big and will be a turn off to your lover. Wouldn’t be so nice would it. It would make you think twice I bet.

    If I like a woman and am attracted to her, I would accept her body and love her regardless of her genitals looked like. I wish I felt like woman thought the same way about us.. again society

  127. James permalink
    August 30, 2012 3:06 am

    Anything under 7 is small I don’t care what no one says I’m a black guy with a 6″ member and I love black women haha this in itself is a curse if you ask me even if Im with a white girl she looks all disappointed thinking I’m going to be 8 or 9 because I’m black it’s sucks let me tell you even guys my size find a girl there will be something that reminds you that avarge is small like watching porn or she wants to do a position that you may not be able to do or talk of an ex or the locker room check or if you dated a size queen size does matter every woman has a min and max not to mention that women treat guys who are bigger better and us smaller guys notice this and what do ladies say big breast so the fuck what anything lacking on a woman can be fixed think about it

    For women

    #1make up: it makes not so hot women hotter
    #2braces: women with bad teeth can get them fixed
    #3small tits: no problem you can make them big from a A cup to a C cup
    #4flat booty: brazilen but exercise will give a girl a nice round booty
    #5loose vagina:again no problem do keigel exercise and bath with vinegar in the water and your little girl downstairs will be able to grip any size penis
    #6fat chicks:eat right and work out
    My point is for what ever a woman’s problem there is some sort of a solution

    For men

    #1small penis:nothing live with it

    But a girl will come along and love you and your penis size yeah if all the other shit girls put us through if you are still brave enough to pull your penis out in front of a woman because the complex we now have imagine ladies that you are going to have sex with a guy and he ask you to open your shirt to show your chest before sex starts and he does not like what he sees he reachs back and as hard as he could punch you in the chest and walks off laughing saying flat chested freak and the next guy does the same thing and the next and you ask me why men don’t like flat chested women and I say sure they do one guy will love you for you and not punch the shit out of you won’t you be a little scared to open your chest up to the next guy for fear now that’s what it’s like to be man it’s a mental thing but I promise you it hurts just the same if not more than being punched in the chest it’s not porn that makes us feel this way it’s women and the reaction women give big guys that us “average” to small guys don’t get

  128. Anonymous permalink
    August 30, 2012 1:52 pm

    Good education for yr sex life

  129. August 31, 2012 6:00 pm

    I am a man that has great potential. I’m also very compassionate; what I’ve learned is that there are far more women that use manipulation that I have met. I am an honest person and I don’t need any woman in my life trying to make me feel like I’m inadequate. Women “CAN” Manipulate you into believing something that’s not true. People will no longer hurt my feelings or make me feel less because I’m not hung like a black man. To tell you the truth if you can fit one of those things in you I doubt a foot long rod like that could ever give you good hard pelvic trusts without damaging some of your internal vital organs or making you bleed internally. Blacks love to treat White women like queens because they want to fuck them and use them. Blacks do not want to have a sincerely caring and sacrificing relationship. They just want to get for themselves. A trained and seemingly affectionate Snake can treat you good like a black man a d the snake can “Love You!” But the snake like the black man is still a snake wanting nothing more than complete control and domination “Dictatorship!!” Intelligently tricking you telling you lies FOR ITS OWN SAKE never sacrificing without the promise of a benificial outcome for ITSELF.

  130. Anonymous permalink
    September 2, 2012 4:11 pm

    Kind of funny how men have something to say but then again gays are everywhere like roaches these days, bigger is better boys

  131. Anonymous permalink
    September 2, 2012 5:17 pm

    “Funny how men have something to say”. ? What’s so strange about that? They’re the ones with the penises.

    …”And then gays are everywhere like cockroaches” Yikes. You sound like a neanderthal turd.

  132. awesome permalink
    September 2, 2012 9:43 pm

    @ Be Brave Enough Stop, you have no idea what you are talking about. What happened to you did a black guy take away your girlfriend or something. Because as a black man and I’ve gone with a couple of white girls, the things you just said are totally stupid and racist. Were in the 21st century if you want to be racist against blacks then go back to the 19 century, you don’t belong in the 21st. Iam gonna be married soon and my wife is white and i actually love her and am not marrying her just to have sex with her. I just had to respond to your retarded comment.

  133. Anonymous permalink
    September 2, 2012 10:17 pm

    why couldn’t we have all been the same size like all 10 inches

  134. Tyler McBride permalink
    September 3, 2012 12:14 am

    I think penis size is important to a man self confidence more than a womans desire more times than none. Most couples can find ways around issues concerning a man with a small penis. If men are depressed about it, natural penis enlargement is the only thing to consider when wanting to get a bigger penis! Thanks for a good read!

  135. September 3, 2012 12:20 am

    I think penis size is important to a man self confidence more than a womans desire more times than none. Most couples can find ways around issues concerning a man with a small penis. If men are depressed about it, natural penis enlargement is the only thing to consider when wanting to get a bigger penis! Thanks for a good read!

  136. roger wabbit permalink
    September 10, 2012 5:59 am

    i has micro-penis 8=>

  137. yassine permalink
    September 15, 2012 7:23 am

    Thanks so much for the explanation.I’m a white guy with a huge thick and long dick (11 inches) .If any girl is interested ,she can inbox me to
    i can show her on webcam.Thnks

  138. Anonymous permalink
    September 27, 2012 12:57 am

    Apparently more than a few women here do not agree with the author. These women are, certainly, entitled to their preference, but why are earth would an average man want these women? What could they possibly offer? Why would any average guy want to do anything special for these women?
    If you don’t want to do special things for your woman, she’s not worth having, at least in the long term. As the Kama Sutra says, match women and men based genital size and you’ll have happier relationships. So, these women who have the capacity to have accept these larger penises, should find such men. Women with smaller vaginas should seek out the average guys.

  139. Tom permalink
    September 27, 2012 12:58 am

    Apparently more than a few women here do not agree with the author. These women are, certainly, entitled to their preference, but why are earth would an average man want these women? What could they possibly offer? Why would any average guy want to do anything special for these women?
    If you don’t want to do special things for your woman, she’s not worth having, at least in the long term. As the Kama Sutra says, match women and men based genital size and you’ll have happier relationships. So, these women who have the capacity to have accept these larger penises, should find such men. Women with smaller vaginas should seek out the average guys.

  140. September 30, 2012 4:09 am

    When i had my first sexy i thougt that i will die bcoz it hurts so much

  141. Anonymous permalink
    October 1, 2012 10:42 pm

    Women do fear my titaniccock

  142. October 4, 2012 12:18 am

    Chicks live a big penis, but I do not think its a deal breaker depending on the guy and his other skills in bed and romance. Men are more worried about their penis size than women are- which is weird because we want it bigger for women…doesnt make sense!

  143. October 6, 2012 12:54 am

    It is no secret that women use cock size as a means of imposing inadequecy on men as payback for the inadequecy they feel is imposed on them by male “objectification”. Men are going to think it matters to women because that is the way men view women. This is something I’ve noticed: men think women view men the way they view women and vice versa. For instance, women will advise other women to be confident because they think this will attract men. But that is only because women value confidence. The majority of men couldn’t care less if a women is the shyest little thing around as long as she is physically attractive. So, too, a man will think women care for big dicks because we love big tits and a big round ass. But even in this attempt at logic the size concerned man faulters. After all, when was the last time you said to yourself, “Man, that woman is beautiful. I wonder if she has a tight vagina”. That’s right, you never have, even though a tight pussy would be the counterpart to a big cock.

    Those thinking it is odd that someone with my user name should be expressing these sentiments should know that “big dicked dead gordan” is a big brother contestant who had a big dick and, yes you guessed it, is dead.

  144. October 9, 2012 5:58 pm

    The penis is a sex characteristic, women who aren’t mentally Gulagized by idiotic social mores will find apparent male sex characteristics attractive; the same reason some men like heavy breasts.

  145. joe permalink
    October 28, 2012 12:21 pm

    I have a 4″ penis so naturally I feel self conscious about my small size.

  146. alex permalink
    October 29, 2012 5:51 pm

    I like big penis

    October 30, 2012 6:04 pm





  148. October 30, 2012 10:41 pm

    big is better there is no doute about it

  149. Anonymous permalink
    October 31, 2012 10:17 am

    I love pig penis,and lyk sex 2much

  150. richard permalink
    November 6, 2012 7:52 pm

    sex is more of a job than a mere fun. good sex demands romantic communications, practice of good health, relaxation, self- control, tecniques and most importantly patience but not size as far as you fall withen the average size. remember to have a good sex is to know yuourself better and satisisfy the woman, just as the saying goes ladies first.

  151. subbu permalink
    November 8, 2012 3:39 am

    see above link for your quetions

  152. My POV permalink
    November 12, 2012 6:06 am

    Size matters! Too big – no good. Too small – no good. A good hefty average for me. I like to feel his snugness inside me. I want to feel everything. I react to his excitement then he reacts to mine and so forth until you both just build up and explode. Just the right amount of friction. Smaller is okay if he moves good, bigger is okay if he takes it easy up top. in the end, it’s mostly about the guy’s personality and how much you care about each other – compatibility, communication, general respect.

  153. joe permalink
    November 12, 2012 8:19 am

    @POV – I like the way you say “a good hefty average for me”! Btw, what size would be Too Small?

  154. Sabian permalink
    November 25, 2012 4:27 am

    What women need to realize is that saying things like “Bigger is definitely a bonus, but a normal guy is just fine.” does not make guys feel better. It makes us feel worse. It doesn’t matter if we can satisfy you with what we have, we have to be the best.

    Even if we are superior in every other way both in the relationship and in the bedroom. Even if we can more than satisfy you every time. Knowing that a previous guy had the size advantage and made our girl feel good in a way that we physically can’t makes us feel very insecure.

    I want to be perfect for her. Knowing that it’s physically impossible to match up to an ex of hers in just a single area will always bother me. Yes I can get past it and won’t obsess over it, it will always be in the back of my mind.

    I am a very kind person and have always treated women with respect and care…….but if I was ever going to lose it and hit a girl, it would be when she ridiculed my size. I’m not saying I would, but that insult is so terrible and uncalled for that I doubt I would feel sorry for a girl who said that and got something in retaliation.

    I think a major reason that this issue is still around is because of the feminist movement. I’m all for female rights and don’t want to sound like I’m against it, but putting men down and trying to control their “dominance” over women is a nasty side effect of the movement.

    Women know that insulting a guy’s size is something that will really hurt, especially if the guy has feelings for you and believes you’re not just saying it to make him angry.

    So to the women out there who think berating guys about their lack of size is ok….do what you want, but I guarantee it will come back to you. You’ll say something mean to a guy about his size one day and find that he no longer cares about gender roles and will treat you just like a guy who has insulted them.

    Women, don’t talk about size….ever. Especially if you care for the guy. It doesn’t matter if you’re complimenting him on his size or think you’re saying something that isn’t bad at all. Any comment can be taken negatively by us guys, and the fact that you are even thinking about our size in comparison to others will make us nervous and will just end up hurting our relationship with you.

  155. Tripod permalink
    November 25, 2012 11:56 am

    Of course, over-thinking ANY topic to a nearly surreal and totally absure degree is sure to make it an unnecessarily “big issue”. Jeez. Maybe lighten up a little, people.

    After all, it would be difficult to imagine another society that could go any further to make people in general – but especially women – completely neurotic about their looks, looks, looks – so if there is some spillover to men regarding something THEY can’t control and it happens to be the penis, well then maybe that’s some form of poetic justice. Or at least a case of “evening out the misery”

    I’m not complaining, mind you – I’m just a naturally aware and remarkably well-adjusted, massively well-hung guy – but I think people are just looking for just about anything to obsess about.

  156. joe permalink
    November 25, 2012 12:23 pm

    In a weird way, I like my small size (4-4.5″). That way I don’t have to worry about where I stand!

  157. Anonymous permalink
    December 6, 2012 7:09 am

    I am a very petite girl @ 4’10” & if we’re discussing ONLY the physical pleasure/attraction of sex with hung given a choice; I definitely prefer a large very thick penis as opposed to small or average………..Just looks better & for sure feels better!

  158. Joe permalink
    December 9, 2012 1:12 pm

    @Anonymous – Cool, just 4’10” sounds very nice. Understandable though what u say about a big penis being more desireable. Mine is just 4″ though! :)

  159. KellyG permalink
    December 23, 2012 5:53 pm

    A large penis looks and feels MUCH better!!!!……even anal sex feels better with a well hung man.

  160. December 26, 2012 8:10 am

    If you have to ask you are on the “you suck category”. I know it was not where or what you want to be but it is the truth. Everyone who tells you that it is “normal or regular” is just lying to you. Just give up and accept the lower life that waits.

  161. Bronte Willis permalink
    January 1, 2013 7:34 pm

    I have had 30 girls and mine is just above average…they never complained…

  162. James permalink
    January 8, 2013 2:46 am

    I have a 6 inch size dick but im only 12 and im 5. Something feet tall and i feal so special l0l

  163. Adam permalink
    January 10, 2013 12:31 am

    I’ve been cruising around forums like this for a while and I havent gotten an answer to my question so here it goes. I keep hearing people say that their bodies are something they cannot change but I have devoted my life to the human body and can increase my penis’ length and girth. Four years ago I was 7″ long and 4″ around, now I’m 8 3/4″ long and 4.5″ around. My question to women is if you could make a mans penis bigger would you? I’m thinking of making it a little bigger because I’m 6’4 and I’d like it to look big compared with my height, however i keep hearing things like “it could hurt” (though it hasnt been a problem in the past). They results are irreversible and so any opinions would really help. Thanks!

  164. Nate with an 8 permalink
    January 11, 2013 2:19 am

    I think it is important not to put to much emphasis on the size of we men’s penises. First of all it’s not how large u r that counts how skilled u r at using it is what should make the difference. I believe if women care too much about the size of a man’s little fella’ and doesn’t focus enough on his personality she and he r both in for a rough relationship. I have an 8 inch penis as u probably could have figured out by reading what I put down as my name. I had sex a lot but one women had the nerve to tell me before we had sex that she hated guys with small dicks and asked me to tell her how large I was. Enen though I am very very large down there especially when erect, she was obviously way too shallow. So I told her to fuck off and never speak to me ever again. Listen girls… It’s how a guy treats u, that’s all that should ever matter. Remember this and u will live a much happier life with your future husband. I’m not sayin,… I’m JUST SAYIN. : )

  165. joe permalink
    January 11, 2013 8:08 am

    I did recently read that for women that can orgasm via intercourse, it turns out size does indeed matter, that bigger is better. It has to do with the entire vaginal canal being stimulated. Myself I do have a small penis, 4 inches.

    So ladies if you can orgasm through intercourse, is bigger better than smaller for you?

  166. January 18, 2013 5:38 pm

    I have a small cock(6in) and really dont care about a shallow girls opinion.Bunch of girls in my class always talk about hot guys and large cocks.Even the female instructor cracks jokes and pokes fun at small cocks.Its funny cause some of them are into me and wouldn’t suspect i have a small cock,I bet if i fucked one of them they wouldn’t tell me i have a small cock to my face because they would still want me to like them and hang out with me.If you have a small dick its not really a big deal since u have no control over my opinion Men should lift heavy weights at the gym if u really want to improve yourself,you can get a beautiful girl(s) that way and most likely they will still like you during and after sex.Just be a gentleman,and if u like her just stay faithful.These days that’s more rare and appreciated by real ladies than a big cock.

  167. January 21, 2013 8:53 am

    Listening to guys with small cocks harp on about OTHER things that can make up for it (and the women who defend guys with small cocks for whatever reason) is just annoying. Answer the question. If you had a clone of the same guy, one with a 6in long by 4in around and the other with 7in long and 5in around who would you pick?

    On a seperate note I need to say something man to man to every guy here with low self asteem. If you say other things can make up for it then you are probably small. A women can attract a man with solely her sexual ability regardless of her looks and a man can attract a women soley with sexual ability regardless of personality. I have seen this, and it is the truth. Don’t try to make animalist instincts anything more then they are. Having said this we as men should try to better ourselfs as much as possible understanding that desire and logical thinking are totally seperate entities. I’ve had a martial arts teacher who can bend a spear in half by pressing his throat up against it. The lesson here? Nothing is impossible. I accepted this as truth and eventually found ways of making my penis bigger. Anything you except as being impossible will be so stop acting like Puss**s and start doing something about your lives……. you Puss**s.

  168. February 3, 2013 12:41 pm

    i feel an important aspect of this conversation is missing, and often, not spoken about – at all. Womens vagina’s size. Now, I’m not one that believes a girl who has had a lot of sex will be ‘loose’. In fact I don’t believe it at all and there isn’t anything from the medical community to prove it, quite the contrary actually. I’m going to say it – I’ve been with a lot of women and I’m an average 7″. First and foremost- confidence in ones self is what women find most attractive. Confidence and the ‘know how’ in the bedroom is what keeps women happy and coming back. However in my experience, I’ve encoutered women where my 7″ literally ‘get lost’. When you insert a finger in to her vagina- it’s not met with a tight, moist, warm feeling- it’s met with what one could only describe as- a large space; requiring positions that compress the vaginal wall against my penis so it feels good. Oddly- I’ve only ever encountered this on really thin girls- Thin and not very athletic. On the opposite we have curvy, voluputous girls who have very tight, and, what feels like’ much’ smaller vagina’s. The issue of ‘penis envy’ is a real one in society- but it’s partially displaced responsibilty of women admitting what the full truth is. And that truth is that some women, for one genetic reason or another, are larger inside then others- requiring larger penises. I find it amusing that you never hear this conversation come up; and if the conversations does come up (men or women) it’s almost always met with a joking projection of ‘Oh, sounds like you have an issue downtown hahahah’ etc. So I see this penis size issue as owned by both men and women alike. Men because it’s our cocks we’re talking about, and we should be honest- some women don’t genetically fit our unit well; and women- because there’s a lot of you who don’t have that ‘tight pussy’ that you’ve delusioned youself in to thinking.


  169. Mike permalink
    February 6, 2013 5:52 pm

    Does size really matter? When I met my wife she had one dude before me. He was over 8 inches long. I got jealous because I was only 6.5 inches long. I had several partners before her and no one ever complained. The first time we had sex she enjoyed her first orgasm from vaginal sex. I wad surprised since the dude before me was so much bigger. My wife told me that for 5-10 minutes he would tear her to pieces before cumming. All she felt was pain and some bleeing. It hurt het so much she limited sex with him. We met while she was still dating but not having sex with her old bf. Our first time together was great because I easily had the ability to last a good 30-35 minutes. My wife orgasms always start slow and build up to a very violent release with a lot of moaning, kissing me and holding me tight. So it true that one size does not fit all but being to big does prevent some woman from enjoying a good orgasm.

  170. Anonymous permalink
    February 7, 2013 9:45 am

    big penis is an advantage to some virginal but while painful to some also, what i think is that average penis(6 inches) satisfying for most ladies depending on the tactics applied,

  171. Mike permalink
    February 9, 2013 9:41 am

    Your very right Emma. From what my wife told me he busted her cherry with one thrust and came inside her with the second wearing a condom so she tells me. It was over in less than a minute. She felt a great pain and then some bleeding. She was 16 and told me she picked a virgin friend to be het first and get it over with. Ovet the past several months she hoped it would get better but the pain was too harsh. He wasn’t very thick but very long. I was 6.5 inches long but pretty thick. Besides he was just a friend. When she realized it wasn’t going any where and just wasn’t attracted to him she began to look around. Even at age 16 or 17 women do begin to look for the perfect mate to bond and start a family. He was short and skinny, I was tall, handsome and strong. So a penis size is not the most important variable when a woman is looking for a mate. She dumped him harshly and his long penis could not hold on to her.

  172. Not your therapist permalink
    February 9, 2013 4:17 pm

    Thanks to all the guys using this thread to make themselves feel better about their penis size, using self-directed propaganda techniques and personal “witch stories.” Back to the gals, please. Thanks.

  173. Carlos Silva permalink
    February 9, 2013 7:08 pm

    Weak-ass “contribution”. It sucks to see you dilute the integrity of this forum. GGF.

  174. Anonymous permalink
    February 9, 2013 7:20 pm

    It was already diluted by the previous guy, others and now again by you. Funny what babies people become when they moderator is away, asleep or unevenly enforcing the “don’t respond to other posts or people” rule.

  175. joe permalink
    February 9, 2013 8:22 pm

    I have a small penis but I agree, its much better reading the ladies’ posts!

  176. john smith permalink
    February 13, 2013 6:14 pm

    well ive been told by different women that im a big boy but sometimes when im with someone new im terrified of performance ireland an order to get a women in bed requires you to spend the night drinking with her and maybe having as many as 9 drinks.i mean its alright for the women all she has to do is lie there groaning like your after sticking her with a knife while there i am damn near ready to get a heart attack.

  177. Anonymous permalink
    March 19, 2013 2:28 am

    one way to solve the size issue is to date or be with a asian woman. They are generally smaller in all the right places and no matter what size the man is, it’s all fine and large no matter what size you have. Truth and experience talking here.

  178. Anonymous permalink
    April 25, 2013 12:38 pm

    i have 15 inch want dat ???????????????????/

  179. jasper permalink
    June 20, 2013 1:09 pm

    Reading all of this nonsense is getting really funny. I think I vision a porno going on in here, Geez! Penis size to facials and might as well mention sexual positions while we are at it too..LOL! Women have no choice to accept whatever penis size a man has as long as she wants a male partner. Men should never have to worry about penis size because I have dated many women that had small vaginas and therefore either way I had confidence things were working right. : ) ….Rule of thumb: Asian women do have smaller vaginas and dating those type of women being smaller and all means that your penis size fits just fine and actually your penis size no matter small or large will fit amazingly in Asian women or any woman that is small in stature. If a woman ever is low enough to tell a guy that he has a small penis probably is a clue she likes big penises. Some men like big boobs or a big ass and that’s what they look for but in no way shape or form should anyone have the right to comment anything about a persons sexuality, it’s wrong and if they do then dump that person. Same as if a man tells a woman she has small boobs or a flat ass. Sex between a male and a female is a beautiful thing and to share sex is a gift we all inherit.

  180. June 29, 2013 2:56 am

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  181. Mari permalink
    July 7, 2013 11:53 am

    They sure do love big penises. This video proves it.

  182. September 24, 2013 3:19 pm

    I’ve always had the feeling that penis size to women is like breast size to guys. Sure we’d all love a girl with a great set of breasts and if we happen to fall for one, all the better but if we fall for a girl with average or smaller breasts who is hella awesome, the subject of large breasts doesn’t even enter our minds. Women want a fun, interesting guy who cares about them, if that guy just happens to have a horse cock, all the better.

  183. October 3, 2013 2:44 am

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  184. October 3, 2013 2:46 am

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  185. February 9, 2014 10:40 pm

    Its a really cruel and grossly immature thing for any body to crush, hurt , or make another human feel horrible because of how they were born . We cant control how we are born and no one has the right to do that to another person just remember karma is a bitch.WE can control how take care of ourselves , i mean if we only move from the couch to the fridge all day every day packin on the pounds. or if we don’t bathe, or don’t brush our teeth ,or don’t comb our hair , etc then its our own fault if we cant find anyone then someone might be a little justified in rejecting such ones .People who dog on others for size or looks are idiots and have some thing they are insecure about . I almost committed suicide because of all the negativity about size, i felt worthless., listening to all the negativity from all directions in life about being small , So one day i said enough i have good qualities, a rock hard 5 in ,, a nice muscular build , eager to please and be pleased, i love foreplay im good in the bed, i have her in mind im good at oral as well and i have been known to last up to an hour so i do have a lot to offer. Some times a guy might get rejected not just for being small , some men no matter the size arent good in bed practice makes perfect Communication helps talk to your partner see what works for each other and work with that as long as whatever you all like is with in reason alot of people like to talk shit about what they will accpt in a mate ,to make themselves look like all that or to impress thier peers but deep down if they just get thier head out their ass and think of others to people might find that they have a wider range of what they like ,quit worrying about what others think especially size qweens and kings they are not worth it ,life is to short , before you know it you will be to old to do anything so go git em!

  186. PlanetOprah permalink
    February 10, 2014 9:45 am

    That was a long, rambling statement placed in a forum mostly intended for women to express themselves freely about a very specific topic. Hopefully in the future you and others like you – with a very personal axe to grind – can go preach and air your laundry somewhere else.

  187. Joe Doe permalink
    February 10, 2014 1:18 pm

    Although i have a small penis myself, only 4 inches erect (yeah I know), I don’t share ANY of the feelings Arnie expressed.  

    Of course women have preferences, there’s nothing at all wrong with that. I also realize while some women may not prefer too large a penis, most if not all, would not actually prefer (not settle) for a smaller penis (like mine).   It’s only natural and makes total sense. 

  188. February 16, 2014 8:39 pm

    In reply to Planet Oprah, in case you hadn’t noticed there are other men on here too sharing their opinions as well. some similar to mine, from some of the comments on this and other forums it looks like some of the comments from women that they may have a personal axe to grind also. It would just be nice if people would treat each other with more respect and not dog on one another for things they cant help , its totally immature .If a man or woman dont like their mate because of certain things dont be a dick or bitch about it like making fun of their imperfections in front of others , just politely as possible if possible let them down easy . I dont think some people realize the dammage they cause when when they say cruel things about people that may not be as blessed The ones being dogged on may retaliate depending on how bad it gets and that could get ugly. To Joe Doe people have preferences i get that, im just saying if some one doesn’t like someone because of some thing about their body don’t be an ass about it Ive seen and heard about this issue many times and it hurts people . I have my preferences too i like curvy full bodied women with pretty feet , but i cant stand facial hair on a woman or breasts that are the size of water melons im fine with a b or c cup depends on the girl but i would not at all dog on a girl if she didnt have all that i wanted, id give her a chance she may have other qualities i like physical or personality wise . I know that not all people are jerks about about the more sensitive parts of the human anatomy but to the ones that are, what comes around goes around .

  189. Husband permalink
    March 11, 2014 10:59 pm

    Size matters the average penis size is much smaller than the average vagina all that means is just use toys and have fun!

  190. Bill permalink
    May 16, 2014 5:13 am

    i am a petite teen close to my 20s. Doing stupid stuff like sleeping with guys after closing bar time. One thing i am happy to learn is I LOVE a huge guy deep inside me. And when he cums I hold his but cheeks so he cums deep inside me.

    The ones i love the most are those that I can hardly fit inside my mouth. Maybe it is the length, maybe it is how big around it is…I LOVE IT. Does this make me a slut? Give me a huge guy with a huge load any night over an average 8 or 9 inches. To feel my body being pushed not only to the deep feeling but to how huge around these things are feels SOOO awesome!

    Give me a package deep inside when he cums over an average guy is memorable. They may make loose for the average guy. I will never marry a guy that does not easily fit inside my mouth.

    I may be a slut. I love huge dicks both in length and how big around they are!

    If your woman says otherwise then try something larger in size and length and watch her facial reactions and emotions. She loves bigger and longer guys. I love my man. I love bigger than what he has. This is why I do guys without my hubby knowing. I love him. I also love things he can not do.

  191. Don permalink
    May 17, 2014 8:25 am

    I have a nice thick (actual 8 inches long) cock and my wife absolutely adores it. She often comments on it and how good it feels inside her and loves to moan as she sucks on it. She said that her previous lovers could not compare in terms of size (especially width). I am one lucky guy to have a woman who loves my cock like she does. I don’t think she would or women in general would be that connected to a smaller cock.


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